Unconditional Love to me (Reminder)

Από την/τον Polyxeni Kokovika | 15 Απριλίου 2013


Well to be honest I thought that unconditional love is a fairy tale and that it is impossible to experience it Unless you are totally selflessness and the word pride it does not exist in your vocabollary And then “life ” came to test me, teach me,make me grow, make me love unconditionally … Thank to my daughters .

I had expectations, I judged them, I felt disappointed , betrayded by the universe. And then I relaxed , I accepted , I opened my self ,I become more humble and then I finally felt in deeper level, I really saw the light within me and the others. Their gracious divinity,fresh individuality , unbeatable uniqness ,superior point of you that this new generation owns..

And then I felt fulfillment because everything felt the way it suppose to be I went with the flow and that was reviling , comforting, at ease:):) You reach and experience the wonder of unconditional love when you love someone just the way he or she is; without imposing your own expectations, rules, or constraints on them. You love that special person without trying to change his or her behavior and personality. You accept them steadily, without question and without doubt.

You continue to love that person respecting and accepting his or her personal choices, beliefs, and ideas. You love them without expecting anything in return; you give your love without the guarantee that you will receive it back in the same way. You accept the risk that the love might be lost and your feelings might be hurt.

This does not mean that you should allow someone to mistreat you, to underestimate you, or to take you for granted. It means that you should not expect to be loved back in exactly the same way; to realize that your loved one may have a different way of return his or her love to you. Unconditional love is the only love that will fulfill you completely; the more you open yourself to it, the more you give yourself the chance to be loved unconditionally. What is your experience?

PolyXeni Kokovika
Holistic Mentor
Life Development Consultant

Polyxeni Kokovika

Polyxeni Kokovika

Η ΠολυΞένη Κοκοβίκα είναι life coach, holistic mentor, καθοδηγήτρια ζωης. Τα τελευταία χρόνια ζει στο Λος Άντζελες όπου δίνει σεμινάρια και προσωπικές συνεδρίες. Θεωρείται μέντορας και health Guru των επωνύμων.

Έχει ταξιδέψει ανά τον κόσμο μαθητεύοντας και διδάσκοντας. Ξεκίνησε σε νεαρή ηλικία εξερευνόντας τον κόσμο του show business αλλά γρήγορα στράφηκε στην εσωτερική αναζήτηση. Ο κύριος σκοπός της είναι να βοηθήσει ανθρώπους και να βελτιώσει την ποιότητα ζωής τους. Γι’αυτό το λόγο διδάχτηκε πολλές μεθόδους εναλλακτικής θεραπείας, μεταξύ των οποίων η ομοιοπαθητική, naturopathy, yoga, ύπνωση, κινεζική παραδοσιακή ιατρική, νευρογλωσσικός προγραμματισμός, κα.

Η ίδια πιστεύει οτι είμαστε εδώ για να ευρύνουμε την ύπαρξη μας, και βλέπει τον εαυτό της σαν μούσα της οποίας ο σκόπος είναι να εμπνέει, να στηρίζει, να καθοδηγεί, και να θεραπεύει. Εχει μια έμφυτη διαίσθηση και θέληση να ανακαλύπτει και να κατανοεί τους γύρω της. Η ίδια λέει οτι το καλύτερο πανεπιστήμιο που τελείωσε είναι η οικογένεια της. Μέσα άπο την ανιδοτέλη αγάπη που εισέπραξε σε αυτό το ζέστο Ελληνικό οικογενειακό περιβάλλον, ωθήθηκε η επιθυμία της να βοηθήσει και τους άλλους. Και γι’αυτό, το μόττο της είναι «η αγάπη είναι η καλύτερη απάντηση.»


  1. Kallinthe Alexopoulou

    2013/04/16 στις 11:03

    A very insightful article, loved it all the way! :)

  2. Katerina Karagianni

    2013/04/16 στις 20:11

    Awesome !!., I like it
    Don’t happen very often. You must be from “Titanium”

  3. Katie

    2013/04/16 στις 22:07

    Have you ever met someone who turned your world upside -down?
    Have you ever felt that the feelings that you keep inside for a person are more intense that you can actually bear?
    I once asked Xenia- Poluxeni:
    “What does someone do when she is ready to ‘explode’ because she can no longer keep inside her some feelings that she has for another person?”
    and Xenia replied:
    “She comes to Xenia”.
    Well, that was the wisest thing to do.
    Keep writing Xenia and spread your positivism around…
    Congrats to Cosmopoliti online magazine for retaining the quality intact with such articles.


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