Well to be honest I thought that unconditional love is a fairy tale and that it is impossible to experience it Unless you are totally selflessness and the word pride it does not exist in your vocabollary And then “life ” came to test me, teach me,make me grow, make me love unconditionally … Thank to my daughters .
I had expectations, I judged them, I felt disappointed , betrayded by the universe. And then I relaxed , I accepted , I opened my self ,I become more humble and then I finally felt in deeper level, I really saw the light within me and the others. Their gracious divinity,fresh individuality , unbeatable uniqness ,superior point of you that this new generation owns..
And then I felt fulfillment because everything felt the way it suppose to be I went with the flow and that was reviling , comforting, at ease:):) You reach and experience the wonder of unconditional love when you love someone just the way he or she is; without imposing your own expectations, rules, or constraints on them. You love that special person without trying to change his or her behavior and personality. You accept them steadily, without question and without doubt.
You continue to love that person respecting and accepting his or her personal choices, beliefs, and ideas. You love them without expecting anything in return; you give your love without the guarantee that you will receive it back in the same way. You accept the risk that the love might be lost and your feelings might be hurt.
This does not mean that you should allow someone to mistreat you, to underestimate you, or to take you for granted. It means that you should not expect to be loved back in exactly the same way; to realize that your loved one may have a different way of return his or her love to you. Unconditional love is the only love that will fulfill you completely; the more you open yourself to it, the more you give yourself the chance to be loved unconditionally. What is your experience?
Life Development Consultant